Connections can be based on differences as well as similarities
Original ideas come from recognizing new connections between familiar things and transforming them into something new.
So the next time you see a pattern —whether it comes from connecting with old friends, negative people or even the pile of junk mail sitting on your countertop — pause for a moment and ask yourself “How can I relate this to something I already know well?” You’ll be amazed at what you can come up with!
If you want to find your right connection you must be available and not involved with people that aren’t right for you. Staying available is hard for a lot of singles, but necessary for finding the love of your life.
OK, available now? Next… are you “ready?”
Any unfinished business that might sabotage your next relationship? Legal, financial, emotional, kids, ex, employment? Get it handled.
Next, make a list of your top five “requirements”
Requirements are non-negotiable deal-breakers; what you must have or must not have in your relationship. Vow not to get involved with anyone that doesn’t meet all five. Share your list with your closest friends and make them swear to tell you the truth and lock you up if you get off-track.
Good job. Now, let’s get crystal clear about this “dating” thing:
If you want to avoid the deadly dating traps, focus on these Four Steps for Conscious Dating:
Step One: Scouting (find compatible people to meet- internet, through friends, getting out there, etc)
Step Two: Sorting (quickly determine if someone you meet has potential)
Step Three: Screening (collect enough information to know if your requirements would be met)
Step Four: Testing (date a few times and compare the reality with the information)
That’s it… nothing more, nothing less. No “trial relationships,” no fun flings; just these four steps.
Step Five: Do not do this alone. Dating can be scary and isolating, and your friends and family can be your safety net to help you stay on track.
Most people meet their soul mate through someone they already know, so let people know you’re looking and network like crazy.
Be positive and happy.
Success breeds success and misery loves company… your choice.
Be the Chooser!
Finding your perfect mate is a combination of working on yourself so that you’re ready to attract and keep this wonderful person, and being proactive in your life to